“Can We Come To One Of Your Weddings and Watch You?”
Posted on Apr 22, 2009 under Wedding Vendors |Brides and Grooms….Don’t do this!
Many brides and grooms want to know if they can come to a wedding I am performing at to see me in action. My answer is emphatically….No!
Why not? You may ask. I suppose it would be okay to watch a wedding DJ in action if….he is the spoon-fed, in-house DJ who does the same thing at every wedding.
For those of us who take pride in customizing, personlizing and crafting unique weddings…the answer should always be, “respectively no”.
Brides have so many different tastes and personalities. They may get the wrong impression watching you do, play or say something at that wedding.
The last thing you want as a DJ is to have a potential client see you doing something at a wedding that completely turns her off.
Even though you explain to every bride that you will do exactly what they desire, it does no one justice to see you with another bride.
No woman wants to see her man with another woman (even if it’s her DJ)
So I decided to add a short video on my website of me at several weddings performing. And still I get some who absolutely love what I do and some who are turned off. Even though I explain to them that I can do whatever they want, they see me in action and will immediately decide yay or nay.
Tony Laub is a professional DJ who specializes in Weddings
http://www.SoundProEntertainment.com
Tony wrote a 98 page guide on how to plan your own wedding. Everything you need to plan the wedding of your dreams!